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View Poll Results: do you wank with your brothers ?
no! not at all !! 48 61.54%
yes! i do 5 6.41%
i would like to try. 21 26.92%
yes i do !! , i also do it with friends. 13 16.67%
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Old January 18th, 2009, 10:31 AM   #1
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i have 5 other bros and i am like the third eldest. when i was 7 ,1/2 my to bigger bros thought me how to wank about 2 months after i was circmcised by doing it for me. i am ok with that cause they are like my bros !! recently i and my elder bros thought my younger bro to wank also at abt age 7 and after his circumcision and he is really enjoying it. we plan to teach the 2 youngest how to wank together after their circumcision, cause they are twins. to this day i also wank together with my big bros and we some times help each other out.



but ohnestly it really depends on how your bro is ( private. or open. ) for me and my bros we are all open to each other so it kida works for us in fact i think it has brought us closer together. try asking your bro abt it GENTALLY and if he does not want to talk abt it don't persue the subject. some peole just need space.
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Old January 18th, 2009, 11:38 AM   #2
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Wow it sounds like you are close lol... I dont have any brothers and i dont think thats something that id want to do with them anyway.

How old are you 5 anyway? (if you dont mind me asking)

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Old January 18th, 2009, 12:39 PM   #3
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Out of curiousity, how come your family waits until the boys are seven to circumcize them?

As long as you guys don't go beyond masturbating with one another, then I would imagine doing what you all do is not bad. Do you all have clear guidelines and limits on what you all do with one another? My viewpoint is that masturbating really should be private as things get weird when sexuality gets mixed up in relationships not meant for sex play such as between family members. Far be it for any of us to impose our values upon you, but you should not be too keen on doing sexual stuff with family members.

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Old January 18th, 2009, 01:00 PM   #4
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You must live in a muslim country that practises ritual circumcision at that age.

Cultural traditions are typically suited to a particular culture, maybe the removal of the foreskin (in addition to the typical 'sacrifice to God'), also reflects a wider acknowledgement of the young boy entering (or preparing to enter) manhood. So, 'teaching' him how to masturbate would coincide with this rite of passage into adulthood.

However, this practice would be unique to your religion and social/cultural environment, not necessarily to the wider world. Therefore, although this all might seem acceptable where you live, it might not be seen (or experienced) that way elsewhere.
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Old January 18th, 2009, 01:12 PM   #5
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I only have a sister, so no. I do with friends though
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Old January 18th, 2009, 06:49 PM   #6
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sexual activity with blood relatives is morally wrong. end of story. I wouldn't even entertain the idea of wanking with my brother. He is your brother not your girlfriend/ boyfriend. I would strongly advise not to do it.
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Old January 18th, 2009, 10:33 PM   #7
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no but almost a friend

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Old January 18th, 2009, 11:37 PM   #8
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I would never masturbate with my bro's. I can't stand them clothed. Why would I want to see them naked?

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Old January 19th, 2009, 12:16 AM   #9
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Out of curiousity, how come your family waits until the boys are seven to circumcize them?

As long as you guys don't go beyond masturbating with one another, then I would imagine doing what you all do is not bad. Do you all have clear guidelines and limits on what you all do with one another? My viewpoint is that masturbating really should be private as things get weird when sexuality gets mixed up in relationships not meant for sex play such as between family members. Far be it for any of us to impose our values upon you, but you should not be too keen on doing sexual stuff with family members.
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You must live in a muslim country that practises ritual circumcision at that age.

Cultural traditions are typically suited to a particular culture, maybe the removal of the foreskin (in addition to the typical 'sacrifice to God'), also reflects a wider acknowledgement of the young boy entering (or preparing to enter) manhood. So, 'teaching' him how to masturbate would coincide with this rite of passage into adulthood.

However, this practice would be unique to your religion and social/cultural environment, not necessarily to the wider world. Therefore, although this all might seem acceptable where you live, it might not be seen (or experienced) that way elsewhere.
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Wow it sounds like you are close lol... I dont have any brothers and i dont think thats something that id want to do with them anyway.

How old are you 5 anyway? (if you dont mind me asking)



actually my parents feel that it is important for the child to know why he was circumcised instead of performing it when he was a baby and not aware of what was going on and why it happened.

in the case of my brothers it was hygine and the docter also recomended it to my parents . for me it was because i had phimosis and i also constantly used to mess up the toilet due to my foreskin. the other 3 younger bros were cut because my parents wanted all of us to look alike and also felt it was hyginicly cleaner and safer.

my to bigger bros are both 18 cause they are twins i am 13 my younger bro is 8 and the other two youngest are both 6 cause they are also twins.

i was born in singapore and currently living i perth... i would say that it was not some right of passage thing and that none of us are musim.

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Old January 19th, 2009, 12:28 AM   #10
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Well I would masturbate with my brothers but I only have a sister and a half-brother that lives in Cali

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Old January 19th, 2009, 02:06 PM   #11
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my to bigger bros are both 18 cause they are twins i am 13 my younger bro is 8 and the other two youngest are both 6 cause they are also twins.
Thanks. I would definatley try and stop this, especially with your 2 older brothers. Im not quite sure if it illegal or not, but im sure friends would not approve. If it is illegal and you are caught, its not going to look good on your brothers CV's... especially with them being adults.

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Old January 19th, 2009, 02:16 PM   #12
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Well, since the time you posted this and I responded, i've read a few of your other posts. Based on that, I see you and your brothers have gone thru some things that are difficult to understand, like being circumcised at 7 without any anesthesia. I wouldn't question an MD's assessment or diagnosis or treatment, but I would question the decision to perform surgery w/o benefit of anesthesia. I think this shows poor judgement on someone's part, a lack of appreciation for your needs. No one should have to feel that level of pain.

So, when things are done (and accepted) as 'Normal', esp. things that are sexual (as circ is because it is performed on the penis), then it's easier to also assume that group family masturbation is OK, too.

In the USA, though, although sex play is a fairly normal activity for very young kids (like 'Playing doctor'), by the time puberty starts, there's this unspoken rule (a "Boundary") that sex play is private and personal, and solitary. That means eventhough family members know and accept eachother's sexuality, it's kept private.

I cannot see any benefit whatsoever in family members openly engaging in mutual masturbation, and I'd strongly encourage you to stop this behavior.
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Old January 19th, 2009, 03:32 PM   #13
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Well, since the time you posted this and I responded, i've read a few of your other posts. Based on that, I see you and your brothers have gone thru some things that are difficult to understand, like being circumcised at 7 without any anesthesia. I wouldn't question an MD's assessment or diagnosis or treatment, but I would question the decision to perform surgery w/o benefit of anesthesia. I think this shows poor judgement on someone's part, a lack of appreciation for your needs. No one should have to feel that level of pain.

So, when things are done (and accepted) as 'Normal', esp. things that are sexual (as circ is because it is performed on the penis), then it's easier to also assume that group family masturbation is OK, too.

In the USA, though, although sex play is a fairly normal activity for very young kids (like 'Playing doctor'), by the time puberty starts, there's this unspoken rule (a "Boundary") that sex play is private and personal, and solitary. That means eventhough family members know and accept eachother's sexuality, it's kept private.

I cannot see any benefit whatsoever in family members openly engaging in mutual masturbation, and I'd strongly encourage you to stop this behavior.
I agree with this post especially about the part about sex play among family members is not good at all especially when one is in puberty. Sexuality is a powerful thing, and you don't want your brothers to end up becoming your lovers, too. There is nothing wrong with asking your older siblings questions about puberty and how to do things, but actually doing stuff with them is not healthy at all. Sex play should be private or strictly limited to one's partner.
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Old January 19th, 2009, 04:55 PM   #14
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i would like to try if i had any brothers i just have a lil sister and would luv to try it wit a friend

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It's morally and ethically incorrect. Doing it with a friend is one thing (and I still don't agree with that) but doing it with your brothers is another entirely.

This is a form of incest, as mutual masturbation IS a sexual activity. 7 is too young to begin to masturbate, so psychologically this may prove a problem also.

I would stop doing it, before anything serious becomes of it.

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huh? well i would love to try it with my best friend and if i had a brother i would try that too. it would be kinda funn or funny. dont know.. but i agree. 7 is kinda too young. xD but i would go with 10 and ^

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Old January 19th, 2009, 10:07 PM   #17
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k guys tks for all your comments i will take all of them into consideration. at the same time do keepyour comments comming!!
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Old January 19th, 2009, 10:33 PM   #18
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Well, since the time you posted this and I responded, i've read a few of your other posts. Based on that, I see you and your brothers have gone thru some things that are difficult to understand, like being circumcised at 7 without any anesthesia. I wouldn't question an MD's assessment or diagnosis or treatment, but I would question the decision to perform surgery w/o benefit of anesthesia. I think this shows poor judgement on someone's part, a lack of appreciation for your needs. No one should have to feel that level of pain.

So, when things are done (and accepted) as 'Normal', esp. things that are sexual (as circ is because it is performed on the penis), then it's easier to also assume that group family masturbation is OK, too.

In the USA, though, although sex play is a fairly normal activity for very young kids (like 'Playing doctor'), by the time puberty starts, there's this unspoken rule (a "Boundary") that sex play is private and personal, and solitary. That means eventhough family members know and accept eachother's sexuality, it's kept private.

I cannot see any benefit whatsoever in family members openly engaging in mutual masturbation, and I'd strongly encourage you to stop this behavior.
Woah no dude us kids are mainly open bout puberty atleased where I live
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